We’ll skip the fluff. Casey Tanner, a sex therapist joined us to answer most of the questions we get about rabbit vibrators. Discover how they work and if they’d be a great fit for you.
Q: What do they look like and how do you use them?
Rabbit vibrators derive their name from their form. Typically, they have two arms that extend from their body. This mirrors bunny ears. These two arms don’t just Look cute – they work to massage and pleasure both the clitoris and G-spot at the same time. The smaller arm extends towards the clit while the longer arm inside is poised to penetrate.
The function of rabbit vibes varies depending on the quality and technology used. LELO’s Soraya Wave, my personal favorite, utilizes patented WaveMotion™ technology to imitate a “come hither” motion that a partner might make with their fingers during penetration.
Q: Do rabbit vibrators “fit” any anatomy?
When browsing rabbit vibrators, you’ll find that the toys are built to satisfy and accommodate all body types. Every body is different. The vulva of a person can be different.. This holds true for the size of both the clitoris as well as the distance between it and the vagina.
Because rabbit vibrators are built to stimulate both of these pleasure points, LELO’s vibes have flexible external arms that bend and flex to your comfort. Furthermore, every toy is made with ultra-smooth silicone that’s soft to the touch – not the rigid plastics that can feel uncomfortable and stiff. When you try your rabbit vibrator, you’ll find that you can also adjust the angle at which the vibe is positioned, such that both your G-spot and clit benefit from the toe-curling pleasure rabbit vibrators are meant to provide.
Q: What are the potential benefits of buying a more expensive vibrator.
Ironically, A more expensive vibrator is worth the investment This can help you save money over the long-term. Many buyers of vibrators that are lower in price end find they need to replace their toys within a few months. Many toys at lower prices are battery-operated, which means that they require you to disassemble and reassemble them every time they run low on power. This repetitive process can result in lower product functionality, frustrating midsex battery changes, and eventually the breaking down of cheaper products. Luxury toys can last a decade, even though they require a larger upfront investment.
You must choose high-end materials when choosing a toy. Even toys that appear identical will have different effects on your body depending on how the materials are made.
Remember, when you invest in a vibrator, you’re making a choice to invest in your body, your pleasure and potentially the pleasure of a partner. This kind of investment is often made in areas that are not sexual. However, we might be reluctant to spend money on things that directly affect our pleasure. This is because society devalues this part of us, but it doesn’t mean we have to do the same.
Regardless of what you choose, Keep your toy clean This will help extend the life of your sex toys. While body-safe materials like silicon are less likely than other materials to be impacted by repeated use, it’s always safer to clean sex toys before and after each use. There are even cleaning sprays This can be used directly on the toy and rinsed off with water within five seconds.
Q: Does using vibrators make it more difficult to have an affair?
This is a very common misconception about vibrators. People often worry that incorporating a vibrator will make them “addicted” or unable to reach the same level of pleasure without one. In reality, it’s not possible to become addicted to your vibrator. When people struggle to orgasm without a vibrator, it’s typically for reasons not related to the toy itself. They may have experienced masturbation in the same way, with the same intensity, with the same type and level of stimulation that it is difficult to broaden their sexual repertoire.
The solution is quite easy: Mix up your toys every now and again! Try turning on your stomach or sitting up if you are prone to masturbating flat-on-back. You might find it difficult to feel the vibration for penetration if your focus is on your clit. You may prefer high speed or intensity. Explore what happens when you move more slowly and with more intention.
Q: After using a vibrator, will I be able to enjoy sex with my partner more?
So many people are afraid that they will have to use vibrators at the expense of enjoying partnered sex – not so! Actually, the vibrators have a positive impact on lovers’ sex. The vibrators have helped them enjoy more, better understand their interests and discover new ways to share their love with their partner. Many folks even love Introduce their partners to their toys Find ways to use vibrators in partner sex
If your partner has concerns or insecurity about your masturbating with the vibrator, remind them (and themselves) about how important it is to have one-on-1 time with your body. Although your vibrator won’t replace your partner, it can certainly enhance the sex that you have together.
It is just the icing on top that a vibrator can be used with a partner.
Q: Can you use a rabbit vibrator if you’ve never had sex before?
Certainly! While I’ll typically recommend beginning with a toy with fewer bells and whistles, there’s no anatomical reason why someone who has never had partnered sex can’t find just as much enjoyment in rabbit vibes as anyone else. Start slow and gentle if you’ve never been penetrated by someone, whether it be a partner or yourself. It’s also never a bad idea to incorporate Lube to ensure a smooth ride, especially if you’re less familiar with the way your body self-lubricates.
Remember to be patient with your self! There are many settings that rabbit vibes can take, and you don’t have to like every one of them. With enough exploration, you’ll find the speed, intensity and angle that’s right for you. Many people wish they’d had a chance to experience vibrators before having penetrative sex for that exact reason; it gives you a chance to learn your body before expecting anyone else to!
Q: Is it okay to use lube in conjunction with a rabbit vibrator.
When it comes to sex there are really no “shoulds”, but using a lube with any vibrator can help facilitate comfort and pleasure. Each vulva is unique and will need a different amount of lubricant. Some people might find they get wet more quickly than others and don’t need additional lubricant. Some people need additional stimulation and contexts to achieve the same level. Some people find it easier to get wet with toys if they have a favorite lube. These are all normal and appropriate ways to use lube with your vibrator.