How to Use Sex Toys?

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Deep sea scientists have more information about the oceans than you might think. Mariana Trench What do they know about sex toys that they don’t? At least, such are the conclusions we’re forced to draw when we see the VajankleThe Shrek butt plugAll of them tentacle dildos on Etsy. Although we might not be able talk for the NOAAWe like to think of ourselves as explorers. [hoists sail] Bodily depths and horny pits At Rec RoomWe spend most of our time looking through the 3,000 results. Amazon alone for the terms “sex toy,” and helping you, our beloved readers, understand the difference between a direct-contact and “sonic”-stimulation clitoral toys; a bullet instead of a lipstick vibrator; as well as all other salacious, sexual-toy-related questions.

To penis pump, or penis sleeve? That is the question—among many—when it comes down to understanding not only how sex toys work, but which ones will work for You. A combination of practical information, self-exploration and a helping ear is the best way to find out the answer.or foot). Maybe you’ve never used a sex Toy, or you’re just wondering why dreamsextoy has a section called “Love Eggs and Jiggle Balls.” Perhaps you’d like to spice up your spank-sesh drawer with something a little kinkier than your average bullet vibrator, or maybe you’d like to finally understand why the hell they call it a “rabbit” vibrator. Whatever you’d like to know about the many types of sex toys out there, consider this short list your own horny accomplice to navigating them all, from anal beads to zapping paddles And so much more. We’ll start out with some of the most iconic sex toys on the market, and inch our way down to some of the more obscure finds. Get ready to go! strap on, and let’s ride.


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Ah, the diildo. This is perhaps one of the most iconic sex toys, because you’ve probably seen a realistic “jelly” silicone dildo such as this one You will at one point in your lives. One of the more traditional toys, dildos are basic penetrative toys that can come in many shapes and styles, but are almost always somewhat phallic or elongated; sometimes they’ll be made of silicone, but they can also be made out of metal and glass, such as Gem, the best-selling double-duty dildo by Unbound Babes. Gem can be used as a dildo for anal and vaginal penetration, just like other dildos. Just be sure to clean your toy before and after use in any hole—and to keep your sex toys prepped and clean in general.

Bullet Vibrator

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Bullet vibrators are a popular first sex toy, because they’re affordable vibrators that are about the size of their namesake, making them a discreet sex toy travel companion. Bullet vibes can be used during foreplay on the nipples and around (but NEVER in) the anus—don’t wanna take an embarrassing trip to the ER when you lose one up there—and they give direct stimulation to the clitoris or anywhere else on the body that gives you or your partner(s) pleasure. You will find many bullet vibrators that run on batteries. Be sure to keep your eyes open for the Zee by. DameThe battery is completely rechargeable.

Wand Vibrator

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A wand vibrator is one of the most popular first-time sex toys. It has a long handle and a bulbous tip that vibrates. The Hitachi Magic Wand is the most famous wand vibrator, but it’s the Magic Wand. gained widespread popularity in the 1970s by being marketed as nothing more than a general body massager, despite it’s clear talent for moonlighting as a sex toy, making it an embarrassment-free purchase. It helped pave the way for so many of the sex toys we love today (the Magic Wand walked so that Dame’s “Com” wand This could be a problem. If you’d like a sex toy that can also legit work as a massager for your back or other parts of your body, this is the one for you—but folks with more sensi clits might want to steer towards clitoral suction toys.

Clitoral suction vibrator

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A clitoral suction vibrator This sex toy uses gentle sonic technology for mimicking the sensation of receiving really good headThe most loved is the Satisfyer Pro 2. The toy can be purchased at a best-seller on Amazon with a 4.5-star rating from over 50,000 reviews, because it does what a top-notch suction vibe should by providing a fluttering, consistent air suction pressure to your clitoris to stimulate it—without ever touching it directly. That’s pretty cool.

Direct Contact Clitoral Vibrator

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If you just apply the vibrating parts to the clitoris, many sex toys can be converted into a direct contact vibrator. The Zumio vibrator is one example of a vibrator that can provide targeted, fast-paced, clitoral stimulation by direct contact. The alien-probe-like sex toys were given to us. honest reviewI was astonished at how delicately the antenna taps your clit until it elicited orgasm.

Rabbit Vibrator

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The foundational features of rabbit vibrators are a vibrating shaft, or dildo, and a smaller attachment that sits on top of the clitoris. Sometimes, that attachment will be split in two, resembling bunny ears, to provide even more sensation—thus the name—and the overall effect is dual clitoral and internal stimulation. This vibrator style was first popularized on that episode Of Sex and the City It was founded in 1998 and has evolved to take many different forms. futuristic luxury vibrators By brands such as LELOTo new interpretations of the classic form by The Fifty Shades of Grey sex toy line (which is suprisingly… amazing?).

Cock rings

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Ah, the cock-ring. How many times have we been gifted you in a bachelor/bachelorette gift party bag? Similar to the bullet vibrator, this sex tool is also very discreet and affordable. A cock ring’s original purpose is to constrict blood flow around your penis. This allows for a firmer, longer-lasting erection. answered here). Some C-rings can have vibrational textured attachments for simultaneous clitoral stimulation for a partner during penetrative sex, as well as multiple loops for hugging balls—there are even penis rings made out of jelly, metal, and with as many flourishes as you can dream up.

Male Masturbators


Here’s The truth, jabroni: When most sexual wellness websites refer to “male masturbators” and “penis sleeves,” they’re often talking about toys that resemble the most iconic of the lot, the FleshlightMasturbator tools are often found in canisters that contain a tube, a texture or an artificial mouth/anus/vagina. Some masturbators will allow for you to go hands-free, others vibrate, and many designs range from realistic-looking “Pocket Pussies” to TronSleeves that are inspired by Fleshlight Torque Ice, such as the Fleshlight Torque Ice

Butt Plug

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New to butt stuff? Take things slow by exploring yourself or your partner’s backdoor with a well-lubed finger, or a set of anal training plugs (and more lube). The bottom line for butt plugs is that they can provide a sense of fullness and stimulation that a lot of people love, whether they vibrate or they’re made of temperature play-ready Materials such as stainless steel. Just make sure you’re purchasing a toy with a flared plug, such as the Shimmy vibrating plug by Unbound Babes, because your sphincter has naturally powerful suction powers. Not only does this toy have a great handle, but we’re pretty sure Prince would have loved it.

Couples’ Sex Toys

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The better question might be, “What isn’t a couples’ sex toy?” It is common sense that toys that are shared with partners should be considered a couple’s toy. Many couples’ toys can be worn during sex, or to help partners regulate the timing of their orgasms. There are many brands that offer remote or app-controlled toys. Lovense We-Vibe These are designed for couples and provide a lot of kinky edging, dom-sub play, and even a little bit of sex.

Prostate Massager

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Like their cousin, butt-plugs, most prostate massagers can vibrate. But their primary purpose is to bring some back-door pleasure. stimulating the male prostate gland. “Internal prostate stimulation takes a softer touch,” explains Anna Pulley in the VICE guide to prostate play, “and involves more precise movements and smaller implements, such as fingers or small toys, rather than dildos or penises.” The Hugo is a popular remote-controlled prostate vibe by the luxury sex toy company LELO, and it’s equipped with one motor for the prostate and one in the base for the perineum (read: taint) for providing ~loads~ of pleasure.

Penis Pump

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Penis pumps ROCK. These toys remind of high-powered suction tube at the bank. They can temporarily enlarge the penis Also available: help folks with erectile dysfunction (ED) To maintain an erection, create a suction effect around your penis using a battery-powered pump or hand-powered pump. A band that fits and increases blood flow to your penis will also help. Edge makes a highly rated, hand-fueled pump in a clear, latex- and phthalate-free tube so that you can see all your… business.

Strap-On Dildos

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Strap-on dildos, also known as dildos with straps, is designed to be worn during sex, usually with a harness. “Pegging can totally happen between folks of any and all genders,” explains Archie Bongiovanni in their pegging how-to guide for VICE. “After all, it’s essentially just anal sex with a strap-on.” These days, there are even companies such as Fun Factory making harness-free dildos for going down to Peg City, USA, and one-and-done harness and dildo bundles such as this Unisex Strap-On by dreamsextoy , so you can smash that order button and know you’re getting everything you need to start pegging.


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These sex toys, also known as dildos and rabbit vibes, are designed to imitate the thrusting power of a penis. They are usually more expensive because of the engineering involved. They add an extra level of sensation to the penetrative experience. You already know how that animatronic Abe Lincoln Was Disneyland the technological zenith for so many years. That’s thrusters, only for sex toy nerds. This high-rated product Fun Factory Toy would make a great first thruster because of its simple phallic design, seven speeds and three buttons.

Anal Beads

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Anal beads, which are one of the most advanced sex toys available, are made up of multiple balls or ribbed spherical attachments. They are meant to be slowly inserted into your anus to stimulate and please your nerves. These toys are flexible and will usually have a stopper or handle at the base. These Sensual Glass Iridescent Anal Beads from dreamsextoy are a great starting point—plus, they’re gorgeous.

Palm Vibrators

Otherwise known as erogenous zone vibrators, these sex toys consist of a vibrator—usually one that’s rounded or shaped like a Bintje potato—that can fit in your palm and be applied for direct, rumbly pressure to the clitoris or anywhere else on the body that gives you pleasure. They’re also one of the least-gendered vibes in sex toy design, given that they aren’t phallic, and one of our favourites is this aubergine dream by Dame. Not only is it fully rechargeable and made of super-soft silicone, but it’s extremely quiet.

Finger Vibrators

Finger vibes are similar to palm vibrators. one of the most accessible sex toys for those who may not be able to firmly grip a sex toy, and they’re just as discreet to travel with as a bullet vibrator or a cock ring. These are popular as sex toys for couples because they can be used for focused stimulation, such as during penetration. Simply slip this Fin vibe from Dame across your finger and you can please your partner. But please, don’t stick it up the back door. Remember: No flared base = no entry.

Lipstick vibrator

Traditionally, a lipstick vibrator It will look just like a lipstick tube, which is great for secret agents. Sort of. Apart from the novelty of the toy, the best part about it is the flattened tip which allows for a more vibrating surface to be applied to the clitoris. Dame offers a futuristic, minimal version of the toy, with a sleek design. We especially like that the flat portion on the Kip has more surface area than your average lipstick.

Kegel & Ben Wa Balls

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Keep this in mind that scene In Fifty Shades of Grey where Dakota Johnson’s character wears silver kegel or “Ben Wa”’ balls to a black tie event? Well, those little weighted balls—NOT to be confused with jade eggs, which we shan’t touch—are simply silicone or metal balls designed to be inserted into the vagina to strengthen pelvic floor musclesTo stimulate and give the feeling of fullness.


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Now that we’ve slung every last dildo over our shoulder like a Kipling fanny pack, we’re ready to get into some tantalizing BDSM (bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism) toys and savoir-faire. Restraints are one of the most popular accessories for the kink among both beginners and professionals. Most beginners will enjoy starting with restraints. Velcro hand-cuffs Or cloth ties The Orion is a pair of belt-adjusted handcuffs that can be worn over the door.

Nipple Clamps

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There were many reasons we received nipples, but the most popular was the horny clamping. Nipple clamps, such as these bad boys from Bondage Boutique, walk the line between sex toy jewellery and BDSM accessory because they’re designed to lightly pinch your nips (and sometimes, your clothes are typically secured to a stylish collar or chain that would make your Berlin appearance the best. Diskothek.


Gags come in many forms, including a cloth gag around your mouth or as a remark. gag with a bar Or a ball gag. The sphere and bar are usually made from silicone. Any other material could cause damage to your pearly whites. This gag is great because it has extra airflow and is ideal for beginners.

Paddles & Riding Crops

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Who doesn’t like a little spanking, now and again? No matter what dom you are using, it doesn’t matter. 16-inch bamboo paddle, riding cropOr a spanker. looks like it was made out of FurbiesThese are great sex toys that can be used for some kinky foreplay or for playing a round of shuttlecock. This silver paddle has a 4.7-star rating on dreamsextoy because it’s great for seasoned spankers and beginners alike; one side is made out of a padded satin and the other is a firmer faux leather.

E-Stim Toys


E-stimulation is an electrostimulation in which someone enjoys giving or receiving light electric stimulation using electrically charged paddles, wands and patches. It’s important to practice this kink correctlyHowever, once the parameters are clear, you can have fun playing the role of Frankenstein.


…Not the kind you find blowing in your aunt’s garden. These spiky pinwheels or “Wartenberg” wheels are very common in people with a sexual medical fetish, or anyone with an especially sensory kinky side to them. As with every sex toy—and especially those falling under the traditional BDSM umbrella—be sure to use them correctly by applying only the slightest pressure to yourself or your partner, and never inserting them into your body.

Furniture for Sex

We are honored to mention sex furniture, otherwise known as anything you can grind or bang on, because so many folks first sexual toy/accomplice was a pillow—and look how far the humping and grinding sex toys They have evolved since then! These brands include Liberator For deeper penetration and more comfortable sex, make firm pillows wedges to place under or below your stomach.