Now, you and your partner know what to do with it. Tantric sex You decided it was time to try it yourself. That’s great news because tantric sex is one of the best ways to build intimacy And connect better with your partner (and yourself).
Tantric sex can sound intimidating for people new to the concept, but it’s easier than you think. To get started, all you need is a partner willing to have sex and a few great positions in tantric sex.
1. Solo Flying
It might be a good idea to try tantric sex before you go out with your partner. Tantric masturbation. Masturbation is usually used to quickly get off the ground. Tantric masturbation, however, is a wonderful way to better understand your pleasure.
It’s always best to start small when it comes to trying out new things in the bedroom. So, when you’re ready to experience slow solo sex, dedicate some time for the activity. You’ll want to be fully relaxed and not thinking about the next appointment on your calendar.
It is possible to light some candles and listen to soft music. You can also choose to wear nice underwear, or even not wear any. This is where you can set the mood and feel relaxed and comfortable.
It might be worth it to get into a warm bath and start playing with yourself while you’re there. The goal of tantric masturbation and tantric sex, in general, is to experience every sensation in your body, so don’t rush into an orgasm straight away.
Allow your hands to touch your entire body. Next, close your eyes, take deep inhalations, and allow your mind to focus solely on the sensations and touch. This is similar to a meditation session.
When you’re ready to experiment with your partner, then the first tantric sex position you want to try is the Fetus. It’s a position that requires minimal effort and stamina, so it’s a great starting point that won’t intimidate either you or your partner.
The bottom partner lies on their back, pulling their knees towards their chests. The top partner is leaning over them, looking in from the side. Fetus positions allow for a lot more skin-on-skin contact which will enable you both to concentrate on pleasant sensations.
Also, this position allows for easy access to your partner’s face, so you can kiss and keep eye contact during sex. This is a crucial part of tantric sex because it creates intimacy between you, your partner, and deepens the bond between them.
Deep breathing and slow, deep thrusts are key to getting the best results.
Missionary is often dismissed as being boring. However, it is actually one of our favorite tantric sex positions. It’s relaxing, comfortable, and offers the closest contact with your partner, so you’re surely connecting with them throughout the whole experience.
The bottom partner will lie on their back on a surface such as a bed, or any other surface. The top partner will lay on top of them, and then settle between their legs.
Before any penetration occurs, try looking at each other’s eyes while breathing deeply together, trying to sync your breaths. Next, try this: Dry humping It is a great way to get warm and feel different sensations.
Long and slow thrusts, just like the Fetus, are key. Orgasm is not the goal of tantric sex.
4. The Goddess
The Goddess tantric position in sex is very similar the Cowgirl position. It provides a lot of stimulation and intimacy.
The bottom partner lies on their backs on a bed or other surface, while the top partner is seated over them with their knees bent and their feet flat on the ground. The top partner can lean back and on their hands for support, or they can seek out the touch of the bottom partner’s chest, creating more intimacy.
You can enjoy your partner’s view while the Goddess is in place. You can also experience deep penetration angles from this position. Orgasm with cervix.
There are several ways to ride a partner at the bottom. You can ride the bottom partner slowly, or bounce up and down. You can also grind or roll your hips, make circles and swing to the sides to experience all sensations.
The best access to the clit is through the Goddess position. You can use it to have fun and even add to it. Bullet vibrator To the mix for maximum stimulation
5. Sensual Fork
The Sensual Fork is a variation of the regular Fork sex position, and it’s one of the best tantric sex positions because it’s intimate, sensual and helps you be very close physically with your partner. This position will allow you to touch almost all of your body, which is exactly what you desire.
The bottom partner lies on their back, one leg bent slightly above the knee. The top partner settles behind them, sliding their leg between the bottom partner’s legs as they penetrate. You both can either lay flat or use a pillow under your side to help you stay upright for better access to each other’s faces.
Maintain eye contact and kisses, as well as sharing kisses, while having sex. To increase the pleasure, you can also try synching your breaths or deepening your breathing to improve the experience.
6. Adjusted Spoon
The Adjusted Spoon, a similar tantric sex position as the Sensual Fork, is also available.
This position is slightly less intimate than other positions on the list. Instead of cuddling as in the normal Spooning position (where you snuggle), the bottom partner keeps their back straight ahead, away from the top. As they approach from the side, the top partner lies on their back, while the bottom partner is on their side.
It’s a very good position for slow and deep thrusts that don’t require much energy. You can also experiment with different angles and penetrations than the Spooning position.
While the bottom partner is further away during the Adjusted Spoon from the top partner, there is still plenty of opportunities for different sensations, so make sure to be hands-on and explore your partner’s body with your hands while you’re in this position.
7. Spread Eagle
Spread Eagle is one the most versatile positions in tantric sex. It offers a variety of stimulation options and is intimate.
The bottom partner lies on their backs on a bed or surface, with their legs extended wide. The top partner then settles on the other side of the bed or surface during penetration.
The top partner also keeps their partner’s legs up by their ankles, allowing them to shift the position of the legs during the intercourse to experiment with different angles if needed.
Spread Eagle is ideal for anal and vaginal penetration. It’s also perfect for clitoral stimulation by either of the partners, and it’s great for deep penetration angles that are sure to hit all the right spots.
Keeping eye contact and sharing breath during sex is also easy, and it’s a very comfortable and relaxing position to be in.
Karolina Wilde works as a writer about sexual wellness. Her work was published on The Ascent, P.S. She has published work on I Love You and Sexography to over 25,000+ people. She can be found podcasting, reading or creating TikTok videos during her free time.